Many of you know that we added to our family by the blessing of adoption this year. What you may not know is that our journey to adopting Emerson began several years ago. God put adoption on our hearts about 5 years ago. We didn’t know when or how, but Brandon and I knew our family would not be complete until we adopted one of the 163 million orphans around the world and called them our own. I always had great excuses for why we couldn’t adopt “right now." We already had small children. It was too expensive. I don’t have enough room in my house for another child. We don’t make enough money. The process is too long, and I just don’t have time for all of that paperwork. And, God, did I mention that it’s just too expensive?
In the summer of 2008, Brandon came home from a mission trip to Thailand, and we had yet another talk about starting the process of adopting. At that point, we had endured several heartbreaking miscarriages attempting to have a third baby. In July of 2008, we took that leap of faith and sent in our application for an international adoption. We had no money set aside for the $24,000 process and no clear picture of even what country we wanted to adopt from. We decided to just trust God to work out all of the details, knowing that He would give us exactly the family He wanted us to have.
Then a small army of friends and family stepped up and cared for our other three children for two weeks while Brandon and I traveled to China this past September.
Though Emerson has only been a Forsythe since September 2010, we have no doubt that God knew she was our daughter all along.
Yes, we have much to be thankful for...
My name is Crystal Gosselin and I have been blessed to have found my Northside Christian family at a time when I really needed God in my life. It was last year during the Thanksgiving testimonies that I visited NCC for the first time. For the first time in two years, I felt at peace. I met Pastor Dave in Sacred Grounds and as soon as he put his arms around me, I completely fell apart. He said "You need to be here". He was right. I had been away from God for so long, I forgot how wonderful His grace and mercy are. My daughter Kylee was born Thanksgiving Day 2008, 11 weeks premature and was a fighter from day one. We both were fighting for our lives in the hospital and I did the only thing I remembered how to do. Pray. I prayed that God would see her through and see me through this tough time. I told God that if He gave her to me for a little while, I would make sure to give her back to Him and help her to know God's love for her. She'll be 2 this month and I know that it is because of God's love for me that we are here today. Being at Northside and being able to reconnect with God and a Christian family has started the process of making me whole again. I still have a long road ahead, but I know that God's "grace is enough" and he has made me stronger than I ever thought I could be.
My name is Orval Peterson and I thank God for my parents who sent me on the right path of accepting Jesus at age 13. He has kept me on the right path ever since. At the age of 82 I thank the Lord for a life of purpose and a life of dedication he has shown me all these years. Thank you Lord for going to the cross for our sins. Thank you for Northside Christian Church – I’ve been a member for over 35 years.
I am so grateful for the marvelous gift from Northside. We accept the water gift with our whole heart. The water project in this community shall benefit at least 100,000 people in this community as long as they stay around until Jesus comes or they move to other areas. What a Christmas gift for us. It is amazing what the Lord has done. I have communicated with the drilling company, and they have agreed to start the drilling work on the 6th December 2010, immediately after the school closes for the holidays because we can’t have the drilling done when the children are learning. The machinery shall be assembled early next week. A big thank you to the Northside community!
I have a lot to be thankful for over the past several years as it was February 14, 2007 that I suffered a brain & spinal injury which resulted in a double hematoma of the brain and multiple dura tears. (The dura is the thin casing that surrounds the spinal cord and holds the spinal fluid). Seeking resolution to these issues has resulted in roughly 30 spinal taps, two brain surgeries and two spinal surgeries with the most recent spinal surgery being just 10 days ago.
I am so thankful that God, my family and our Northside church family has been there through this great trial. There have been so many days I have wanted to give up. The relentless pain has taken a great toll. My particular injury is one the medical field rarely sees and there are no cut and dry, black and white text book procedures for this. I thank God for our newly formed small group who has ministered to our family this past month and for you, Pastor Dave, also the elders of Northside who prayed and anointed me prior to the surgery, and for the prayer quilt that was given to me from the church as I was prepared for surgery.
I continue to trust God for complete healing, knowing He is the GREAT physician. He knows all and guides even in the deepest, darkest hour and I have experienced many of these dark hours. Christ never said that it would be easy but He did say he would be there with us through each trial. I have not always felt Him or seen His hand but I’ve clung to Him. I have a ways to go for complete healing, however, I can say that the relentless spinal headaches and pain have greatly subsided. I am hopeful that this may be the best year yet. One scripture that has become very personal to me is 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed, we get back UP.”
I pray someone will find hope through this verse.
I look forward to complete healing and restored strength to be able to serve God in a more active physical way rather than through the testimony of mere survival. My challenge to each of you is to seize each moment no matter what trial you face. We are still called to live Christ even in times when we seem to be at the very bottom and have nowhere to turn but UP, and UP is to HIM. He can use you in any situation to bring glory to Himself. May HE be glorified.
Allison and I are both thankful that we are able to share our testimony that started off as one of the biggest tests of our lives.
Allison and I have struggled to have children naturally. We have been trying to start our family for over 3 years now. We have been through 5 failed fertility cycles (the last of which resulted in a very early miscarriage). After all of these failures, we knew we had pushed things to the edge and probably beyond a bit. Given this, through a very deep depression on both our parts and deep conversations with God, our family, and our doctors, we slowly got a grip on the realization that pregnancy was not going to happen for us…after all, we had a whole panel of doctors and experts telling us through a 5 page report with charts and graphs why we had a less than 5% chance of conceiving naturally. After months of mourning, we really got to a good place with this and started to pursue adoption once we felt ourselves becoming “healthy” again.
We started to pursue adoption and back in late July, we were in Ft. Worth visiting a private adoption agency and we were happy and convinced that adoption was our path. Well, we still definitely are convinced of this but it is going to have to wait a bit as we found out 1 week after returning from the adoption agency in Ft. Worth that Allison was very pregnant. Even though Dr.’s gave us less than 5% chance of conceiving naturally, God had the final say so. Seeing our daughters heartbeat was one of the most miraculous moments of our lives. There is no doubt in our minds, we saw God in that heartbeat and continue to see and feel Him every day in this journey!
We both feel that our testimony has and continues to come out of this journey to be parents. We want people to know that we have definitely, without a shadow of a doubt, 100%, been touched by the hand of God. Even though we lacked faith at times and quite frankly, at times were angry with Him, throughout this journey, He never failed us. When we felt our furthest from Him, He could not have been closer to us and was working the biggest miracle of our lives. He could not have made it more clear to us through this process that He has been there every step of the way, even to the brink of complete shut down. We are just an average Joe and Jane and He can do this for anyone! We are so thankful that He has blessed us with such a beautiful gift!